Elust 193 - my first media appearance
This is the my first media mention as an independent London male escort.
Elust has been leading the way in bringing sex-positive blogging to broader audiences since it was launched in 2009. I have enjoyed it for many years as a reader. Appearing in it feels like a coming of age moment for me as Adam.
It brings together some of the sharpest writing each month on sex, kink, relationship advice, op-eds and personal stories in these areas. It serves as a community for people involved with all of these things and keeps pushing boundaries forward.
One of the things I want to do as Adam is to help raise the profile of kinky male escorts in the media, trying to challenge some of the stigma and prejudice that is often associated with us. We provide bespoke kink experiences, companionship, training, and education in different kinks. We offer this to couples, to help fulfil their desires & strengthen their relationships, and also to singles who don't currently have a partner, or a partner who isn't kinky.
Welcome to Elust 193
Elust is the only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month.
Whether you're looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice, or kinky discussions, it'll be here at Elust.
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Morgan Destera, A Little Sex
A story about the importance of 'feeling' during sex of everybody opening their minds.
Femina Viva, Love, submission, and are these my demons?
Not being born submissive, but learning it, particularly as a way of granting permission to the dominatrix.
Tantric Sexual Healing, Tantra against optimisation and the refusal of efficiency
How tantra makes erotic intensity become less transactional and helps couples optimise each other's experiences.
Kristina J, He Thought He Was Leading, Intimacy, Control & Desire with Kristina J
One of the absolute classic stories of BDSM: somebody used to being in charge letting go with an escort and sexual muse.
Awakening Your Inner Essence, Tantric Massage and Sexual Energy: Releasing Performance and Feeling Alive
How letting sexual energy circulate around your body nourishes your whole system and opens up greater sexual confidence.
Tantric Connections, Why Your Fears could be Guarding Your Pleasure
The place of ritual in tantra, and how creating such an intentional space for erotic exploration really matters.
Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish
Chastity Cages, How to Introduce Chastity to Your Partner (Without the Awkwardness)
A really useful guide to how chastity can deepen intimacy, build trust, and be playful, romantic, or kinky.
Mx Valentina, This is Not Kink: How Feminine Authority Rewires the Nervous System
How most people already submit in their everyday lives, but BDSM can focus this towards clarity, regulation, and even repair.
Denying Thumper, 2025 by the numbers
A review of 2025 from one of the absolute legends of male chastity online - he was only unlocked for a total of 8 hours all year.
Erotic Fiction
Fern River Club, Margot hosts (Part 2)
Erotic fiction involving large breasts, erections, and saliva leading to a post-orgasm daze.
Simone Francis, The Artists’ Model
A story mixing exhibitionism, female domination, and male submission in 1950s Paris.
Sex Work
Sex Worker Search, Ur Little Secret Privacy Policies
A review of Ur Little Secret's privacy policies, one of a series on the website.
Adam Black, Why become a kinky high-end male escort?
Why I became a kinky male escort in London!
Oz Bigdownunder, Nightclub Upskirting Perv Gets His Comeuppance
A role-play session with a male escort and two female escorts punishing a pervert, using verbal degradation and humiliation.
Hellga, Ball Busting
An account of a heavy ball-busting session from a specialist in fetish, BDSM, role-play, porn-star experience, anal, and double-penetration.
Sandra, Double Penetration with a Man and a Dragon
Double penetration with a dragon toy and a client, involving slippery lubey fingers, reverse cowgirl, and a doxy wand.
Product Reviews
Lushense, Original & Innovative Pleasure Toys Unveiled Part 2
A round-up of new sex toy releases seeking to redefine joy - mainly vibrators.
Books and Movies
Liz Black X, Need a Vacation - Surrender to the Bliss Liner - The Complete Paradise Punch Trilogy is Live
The Paradise Punch trilogy is now live - exploring the ultimate fantasy of letting go.