Choosing the right hotel for meeting an escort
Most of my bookings take place in hotel rooms. I do see people in professional dungeons, accompany them to play parties, or go on more vanilla dates around London. But if you’re going to book me we’re likely to end up together in a hotel room sooner or later.
Don’t underestimate how exciting it is just to get a hotel room and book a play session with a luxury male escort. It is your chance to block out the real world for a few hours and have some serious ‘me time’. You don’t have to worry about impressing me or indulging my interests: because of the nature of our relationship the focus is always on what you want to do.
Some favourite themes are:
Power exchange, where you start to let go and follow my lead.
Impact play, where you experience anything from a gentle spank all the way to more serious paddles and canes.
Bondage, where we consensually limit your freedom of movement to heighten the power imbalance between us, and make you focus more on other things.
Or any combination of these and other things that take your fancy. How would you feel playing around in a hotel room in your underwear (or nothing at all) knowing that everybody outside is going through the motions of everyday life . Pure indulgence!
But there are some differences between hotels that are particularly relevant when booking a session with me. The big one is between the big corporate hotels, and the smaller boutique operations. I’ve always found that the larger corporate hotels offer a higher level of anonymity. If you are slipping away from the day job (or a partner who doesn’t know you’re seeing me), these hotels usually work well. There are so many people coming and going as guests, conference delegates, customers of the spa or food and beverage outlets, we can easily blend into the background. I’m always discreet and well dressed, and carry my little bag of tricks without any hint about the mischief that’s inside.
Smaller boutique hotels (usually just outside the centre of town) can also be wonderful to play in. But they come into their own if we’re having a cuckolding session and your partner is there with you. Because everything is smaller and more intimate there are fewer places to hide. The three of us can still meet in the bar without announcing what we’re doing. But in my experience these smaller venues somehow make everything seem more real. They also tend to have less generic furnishings in the room. Don’t underestimate how some particularly funky carpets or cushions can form part of the fantasy you remember afterwards.
That brings me nicely on to the topic of which room to book. I don’t expect you to always book the penthouse. But given what we’re going to be doing with each other, our physical environment makes a massive difference to how things play out. Simple things like having a bed that’s big enough and that we can walk (or crawl) around it. That there are places for us both to sit down, or even room to swing a paddle properly. One of the quickest ways to kill the mood is if we are tripping over each other in a small room with harsh overhead lights and not enough space to keep luggage, any food, and wet towels out of the way. That’s why I only accept bookings at 4 and 5 star hotels and recommend booking a room above the entry level.
Other things to think about are whether there’s a restaurant if you’d like to add a dinner on to our session. I’m a big fan of eating in the hotel to keep the arrangements simple. Is there a spa? I enjoy going on spa dates with partners in my personal life, and would like to do more of them as Adam. It’s a great way of getting to know each other without us wearing very much, but still in public. There are all sorts of ways of ratcheting up the tension for what happens later as well. Finally, would you like us to have a bathtub, or walk in shower in the room? Whatever could we use them for?! There are so many possibilities - get in touch if you’d like to discuss them.